Hi guys, I found this touching story online and thought to share with you. Let’s have your take after reading …
I will be 24 in 2 months time. My husband is 30 years old. We met at the later part of 2009. I am an industrious woman. While schooling I made clothes to pay my bills. Saturdays I would help serve at occasions and got extra money. My husband then had no job. I supported him. Bought clothes for him gave him pocket money and so on. I later got a job after school while he got into school i kept supporting. In 2013 I told him I wanted to get married as suitors were coming. He got told me we should get married. I accepted because I loved him. I gave him all my money that I had saved, sub-letted my house and gave him all the money. Every thing was about 800,000 to use for the wedding. We wedded still he had no job. 2 months after we got married he said he got a job abroad in a church I hustled around. Borrowed and gave him about 500k for the trip. He got repatriated. I was calm. Encouraged him. I had a. Miscarriage but my husband never said sorry to me for all the things I do. How I stress myself, he never says thank you. He will tell me its God that brings everything that I didn’t do anything. I know every thing comes from God but I too deserve appreciation. I collect my salary and give all to him. If I should do something wrong. He calls me foolish, silly etc.
His friends talk to me any how and he says nothing. He is only romantic when he wants something from me. I see how other men treat their wives and I get jealous. I am very pretty but I am like sh*t before my husband.he beats me when he is angry. I am in my third year in school doing my second degree ( training myself) but he still does not value me. My heart bleeds every time. When he is angry my hearts jumps out if my skin. I don’t know what he will do next. Even on the road. If I say something wrong he will tell me its like I want to pick my teeth from the ground. Please help me. I don’t want to divorce. How can I make him value and appreciate me?
Amaka