Joro Olumofin shared his thoughts on the 20 Things a guy shouldn’t do or ask when he meets a Lady.
See them below.
- Men shouldn’t be looking at their phone more than the Lady.
- Talking about your Bank account or how much his father has ; this puts ladies off (Bragging).
- Smelling Bad ( Mouth or Body Odour is a No. No).
- Don’t ask ” are you a virgin?”.
- Don’t ask her how many guys she’s been with ( Body Count).
- If she’s going to pay the movie or dinner bills let her know in advance ( no unexpected ATM failures, I forgot my wallet at home).
- When your phone rings on a date and you’re asked where you are? Don’t give a degrading response eg ( I dey with that big ass babe, I dey with tolu big Breasts, I dey with that weekend chops I teh u about”.
- Don’t insist on a “come to my house first date” or come to my friends house first date.
- Don’t leave your date to talk to another Lady for more that 2 minutes
- Don’t buy her too many gifts she may think ure trying to buy her.
- If for any reason someone else needs to be in the car, don’t put her in the back seat.
- Don’t compare her to your Ex.
- Don’t talk about her weight or hair only in a positive way eg ( some guys may say : ure about to burst out of that dress, your hair should be due by now ?).
- After the first sex always call as a courtesy (even if the sex was good or bad).
- Table manners ( making sounds with ur mouth while eating, talking while theirs food in your mouth, using fork & knife for icecream).
- Focus your eyes on her eyes not her breast or ass. ( don’t look at any other lady asides her on a date).
- Projecting yourself as someone youre not (Ladies can spot fake confidence, or a fake in general) Don’t borrow ur friends car and say it’s yours, don’t lie your friend’s apartment is yours).
- Don’t be too touchy & feely on a first date.
- Don’t be rude or nasty to the waiter or waitress to impress your date.
- Don’t ask her for money.
- Don’t ask for pictures unless she offers