Clear signs you are not ready for marriage – Lifestyle News

Thought you are ready to say ‘I do’? Well, maybe you are not.

Marriage is not something to rush to since it’s supposed to be a life commitment affair. So before you get married to that person you think is the love of your life, take time to figure out if you are really prepared for it.

Here are some signs that prove you should wait a little longer because you are not ready for marriage:

1. You don’t talk about money

Money is an important part of every relationship. Sadly, most couple shy away from talking about it. If you are yet to start discussing matters finance with your partner, take time.

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2. You don’t trust your partner

A successful marriage is based on trust. If you are suspecting your partner is involved in fishy stuff and they are not coming out clear about it, you should take more time. You need to trust your partner completely before committing yourself to marriage.

3. Secrets

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Woman whispering to woman (Stock Clips)

Secrets are a huge deal breaker when it comes to marriage. If you are still holding some important information from your partner such as a child you had or an ex who is still chasing you, you need to open up about it before marriage. But if you haven’t, then it’s not yet time to get married.

4. Your gut

Your inner being is never wrong. If you deeply feel like you need to take some more time before getting married, then do. Don’t get pressured by your partner or relatives since you will not like it if it’s not out of will.

5. You fight frequently

Fights are always there in relationships. However, if you are always fighting with your partner, you need to look at the root cause of your fights first before getting married.

6. Your values are completely different

You can’t really be the same but if your values and beliefs are like heaven and earth, you need to reconsider marriage. You need to at least get married to someone with whom you share some similarities.

7. You are not ready to compromise

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Couple fighting (Youth Village Kenya)

Because you are different, you will both have to change some of your habits to blend in with your partner. If you feel like that is too much, you surely not ready.

8. You are not over your ex

This is no brainer, right? Anyway, sort out your issues with your ex before committing yourself to marriage. Otherwise, obsessing over your ex will break your marriage sooner than you thought.

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