A woman duped into sex with a trans lover who used a fake penis told how her life was “torn apart”. Lisa Evans, 30, bedded Carlos Delacruz, 35, unaware the fiend — born female — had no penis. Delacruz was jailed for the prosthetic attack on her and another partner.
Lisa, of Cowdenbeath in Scotland, said “I’ll never trust another man again” as she opened up on the romps in the dark that left her in excruciating pain.
She was convinced trans Delacruz was a fella as he “brainwashed” her by claiming he was self-conscious about his manhood after it was scalded as a kid.
But in reality he still had a woman’s body and used a “blood and flesh” prosthetic during sex which he demanded always occurred with the lights off.
As Lisa yesterday lifted the lid on their shocking ten-month relationship, she revealed Delacruz had an op to have his boobs removed — but tricked her into believing it was surgery for his burn scars.
And she only discovered he had no penis when cops strip searched him as his sick deceit was finally exposed.
The mum-of-one said: “When we had sex for the first time he demanded we do it in the pitch dark — I just went with it.
“I was so brainwashed into believing it was because of what happened to him as a child.“He told me about being embarrassed in front of kids as he got changed for PE at school.“I felt so sorry for him. His stories pulled at my heart strings.”
“The strange thing I can’t get my head around is that he pushed for it — he would act all manly and bravado about wanting to have sex.”
He claimed his chest and genitals had been severely disfigured when his mum spilled boiling water on him.
Lisa told how sex with him left her in agony.
Carlos Delacruz
She revealed: “It was really painful and felt like sandpaper, it was really rough. “And he was holding it but I thought that was because of the way his injuries were, because of the scar tissue.”
Lisa said they tried to make it more comfortable.
She added: “But it wasn’t getting any easier. I would bleed really heavily afterwards and a nurse said I had severe friction burns.“I begged him to go to the doctors but he wouldn’t.”
She continued: “It came to a point that if we were going to have sex, I would choose a night where I was off work the next day.
“The strange thing I can’t get my head around is that he pushed for it — he would act all manly and bravado about wanting to have sex. “I had to just grin and bear it — I didn’t want to upset him as he was finally comfortable to be physical with me. “Afterwards I just thought to myself, ‘well we won’t be doing that often’.”
When police were called in to investigate, Lisa got the final shock.
She said: “He was strip searched. It’s just horrific.“I’d slept with a woman who was holding something.“I was completely broken. I was hysterical and just broke down. My world just collapsed. “His other victim was with him for three years and didn’t have a clue — he had absolutely mastered the art of lying.
“But nobody is going to understand unless they go through it.”