It’s easy to delude yourself into thinking you’re happy, especially when you desperately want to be. But by living a lie, you’re only postponing a pain that will inevitably come.
There are many signs that your relationship isn’t good, and it does not help you to ignore them. Take a closer look at things to find out where you should make changes.
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You don’t have deep conversations
It may feel like you guys don’t fight or argue anymore, and this gives you the impression that things are calm and well. But just because you aren’t yelling at each other does not mean things are okay. It could simply mean one or the both of you have given up. You’ll notice this sign your relationship isn’t good if you cannot remember the last time you both had a deep heart-to-heart discussion.
Someone cheated
Many women are in relationships with someone who has cheated on them and they assume they have forgiven and moved past it. However, there’s no way you can forgive a cheater without doing a reflection on the relationship. You need to be able to understand what made him stray to ensure it never happens again. You also need to truly forgive, and not say the words while harboring resentment. One of the signs your relationship isn’t good is when you sweep infidelity under the rug because you’re determined to be happy. But this always comes back to bite you later on.
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You’re keeping a big secret
Your relationship isn’t good if you feel the need to keep a big secret from your partner. Couples in love share basically everything. You may convince yourself that it’s no big deal but if you know something that may affect him or how he sees you, then it’s only fair that he knows.
To avoid wasting your time, here are five first-date signs that show he’s not relationship material.
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