This Is Why You Keep Attracting The Wrong Type Of MenZUMI

Have you ever wondered why you keep attracting the wrong type of men? Does your relationship pattern seem like a repetition? Somehow, you keep falling for the type of guys who end up being very bad for you. Well, the good news is this, we can help you find out why and then show you how to stop it.

This is why you keep attracting the wrong type of men:

You probably don’t know what you want in a man

It is very important for every lady to have a list. This isn’t to say a man must meet all the qualities on the list, but the list should guide you to what you can’t live with. There are some things that should be deal breakers for you.

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You’re afraid of being alone

This is one of the most common reasons women date and even marry a man they know isn’t good enough for them. The idea that “half bread is better than none” seems to really stick with them. So they simply settle for whoever comes along instead of being alone.

You don’t place a lot of value on yourself

Some of us have self-esteem issues and don’t think we have a lot more to offer than our looks. A guy can sense this from miles away and so will come with the intention to “hit and run”. The moment you start placing value on yourself, men will see that and only come when they are serious.

You’re not truly ready for a serious relationship

This might be another reason you keep dating flaky guys. If you’re not truly ready for a relationship, your subconscious will always know it and settle for guys who also aren’t ready. Sometimes we think we want something because it seems like it’s the right time. You have to be emotionally ready to commit, to attract a guy willing to commit.

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You might be a bit shallow

Now, this seems like a hard pill to swallow, but it’s the truth. Some of us are really quite shallow and our standards for dating are the reason we always get hurt. if you’re more particular about looks and finance than attitude and manners then you might set yourself up for failure.

Check these signs to know if he’s a .er from the first date.