If you cannot keep a promise, no need making it in the first place.
It’s disappointing when someone promises you something and they end up not doing it. Before you make any promise, be very sure that you are in a position to meet it. Otherwise, you will ruin your relationship with people and hurt others.
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If you cannot keep these promises, then you had better not promise:
1. I will never hurt you
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Breaking promises is hurtful (kvtfeminino)
When you love someone so much, it’s easy to promise how you will always take care of their feelings. But you would rather not say it since if you ever hurt that person, it will be such a disappointment. Just be cautious not to hurt them but don’t promise.
2. I will pull out
Men are in the habit of promising that they will pull out during sex and they end up not doing it. Dude, if you are so sure that you won’t do it, just use protection instead of making a false promise.
3. I will change
You probably have a habit that your partner doesn’t like. And heavens knows how many times you have promised them to change but you never do. How about you make every effort to quit the behavior without making any promises?
4. I will always love you
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Make promises you can keep (DeviantArt)
When you promise someone love, be careful to do exactly that. It’s such a disappointment when you promise someone love but the things you do to them are nothing close to love.
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5. I won’t tell anyone
When someone shares a secret with you and they ask you to keep your mouth shut, they expect you to do so. So if you really suck at keeping secrets, don’t promise to keep it to yourself.
6. I will get you the stars
They are so high yet a person in love will promise you what they know so well that they cannot afford. Don’t promise anyone starts while you cannot even reach the clouds.
7. I will never leave you
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promises you should never break (GhanaNation)
Most of us have been in relationships where our partners promised to never leave us. But they did. Life is so unpredictable and unless you are as sure as death that you will always be by someone’s side, never promise to forever stay.
Source: Lifestyle.NG