Solomon Buchi on the Dangers of Spouse Comparisons
Recently Solomon Buchi had made an assertion that comparing one’s partner to others can be a fast track to unhappiness has sparked discussion.
He contends that the act of comparing is often an apples-to-oranges scenario, where the “container” of someone else’s relationship is compared to the “substance” of one’s own. It’s an issue many married couples face but don’t always openly discuss.
In another bold statement, Buchi suggests that unless you’ve lived with someone, you cannot truly evaluate whether they are better or worse than your spouse. This perspective raises questions about the basis for judgment and highlights the importance of firsthand experience in understanding a person’s character.
Some days ago Solomon Buchi had drawn attention to parenting in the digital age, revealing that he and his wife plan to withhold funds from their children until they reach university age. Their reasoning is that early access to smartphones may expose children to negative influences and behavior. This stance calls for reflection on modern parenting techniques and their impact on children’s development.