For many Nigerians, relocating abroad is a dream come true, especially with the rise of the japa wave sweeping across the nation. And truly, who can blame anyone for chasing better opportunities, a higher quality of life, or new experiences?
Living abroad often feels like stepping into the scenes of your favorite foreign movies—clean streets, organized systems, and maybe even snow. But beneath the excitement and Instagram-worthy moments lies a reality that most returnees and long-term migrants can relate to: the things you never thought you’d miss about Nigeria slowly start creeping back into your heart.
From spontaneous visits to lively weekend parties, here are a few uniquely Nigerian experiences that many people find themselves longing for after moving overseas:
1. The Warmth of Neighbours and Friendly Visits
Communal living is one of Nigeria’s most cherished traits. Whether it’s a neighbor dropping by unannounced or a friend showing up with a plate of jollof, these gestures form the fabric of everyday life. But once you’re abroad, that culture of spontaneous social interaction fades. People are often too busy or too private for casual visits, and before long, the silence can feel isolating.
2. The Legendary Owambe Experience
Nigerians are known for throwing some of the most colorful and energetic parties in the world. Every weekend back home offers a chance to dress up, eat well, dance to your favorite hits, and reconnect with family and friends. Whether it’s weddings, birthdays, or naming ceremonies, there’s always a reason to celebrate.
Abroad, however, these events are typically smaller and more formal—definitely not the same vibe. Where’s the aso ebi parade, the party jollof, or the aunties throwing money on the dance floor?
3. Lagos Bus Conductors and Their Chaotic Charm
As odd as it may sound, many Nigerians find themselves missing the ever-dramatic Lagos bus conductors. From shouting destinations to quirky insults and fare negotiations, they add a touch of comedy and chaos to daily commutes.
In most Western countries, public transport is structured and quiet—almost too quiet. You’ll find no one yelling “Ojuelegba!” at the top of their lungs. You’re expected to check the schedules, navigate apps, and figure it out yourself.
4. Nigerian Music – It Just Hits Different at Home
Sure, you can stream Burna Boy, Davido, and Asake on full volume abroad. But the atmosphere back home brings music to life. Imagine hearing “Buga” blasting from a neighbor’s speaker, a roadside seller’s playlist, and a nearby crusade—all in the same hour. In Nigeria, music isn’t just background noise—it’s part of the culture.
5. Everyday Nollywood – Real-Life Nigerian Drama
Nigeria is full of vibrant personalities and unpredictable encounters. One minute you’re in a keke listening to your rider’s unsolicited relationship advice, the next, you’re haggling over prices with a market woman who sounds like an auctioneer. Life back home is an unscripted Nollywood series.
Abroad? It’s all calm and quiet. Too quiet, in fact. Everyone minds their business. No one stops to ask when you’re getting married or to offer unsolicited opinions. While peaceful, it can feel a bit… dull.
Moving abroad definitely comes with its perks, but for many Nigerians, the nostalgia for home never fully fades. The vibrant energy, rich culture, and daily interactions that make Nigeria special often linger in the hearts of those who’ve left. And while you can take the Nigerian out of Nigeria, you certainly can’t take Nigeria out of the Nigerian.
