Dear TSB readers, I got the rudest shock of my life on our wedding night when I discovered my husband was impotent (unable to get an erection). I had kept myself and looked forward to this night for months only to be utterly disappointed. My husband and I went through a lot while we were dating but against all odds, we finally got married. He never told me about this devastating secret of his for fear or rejection! So he says. I still love him but can’t imagine marriage without sex and I don’t want to cheat on him. What should I do?