Readers’ Mail: “I’ve Paid Her Dowry & She Wants Me To Wait Till Our Wedding Night”

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RMDear readers, kindly help a brother out. For those who can’t read the small print of the screen shot above, you can view a larger after the break

Dear TSB,

Kindly help post this (without my email address o!) I am a 28-year-old banker dating a 25-year-old customer care agent in Lagos. We met 2 years ago and have been waxing stronger since then. We are both Christians and decided to keep ourselves till we get married. Three months ago, we did our traditional wedding where I paid her bride price. Our white wedding is slated for March next year.

Whenever she comes around and I want to get physical, she always declines. My thinking is that I have already paid her bride price and we ought to be married by that action. Do we have to wait till after the white wedding like she suggests? Am I being to fussy about this? Is it a sin if we get down at this stage?

I need your candid, mature advices.

Abbey

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