My friend has been dating this lady for the past 3yrs and he was even thinking of doing his introduction and marriage this year….until he got the shock of his life on Monday….To him he thought their relationship was steady and ok so he never had any cause for alarm but a few weeks ago while praying in church his Pastor told him to avoid eating any food his Gf prepared for him for a while(I know what’s on ur mind,Pastor lying since 20 B.C right?) well the guy prayed about it and kinda obey,they have been dating for 3yrs and sometimes the Gf comes over,sleep over or spend some days and you know its,kinda normal for ur Gf to prepare food and stuffs…
Due to the nature of his job,sometimes when he comes back from work the Gf would have slept and left his food in the cooler.. So after the pastors instruction he would sneak out and pour away the food…sometimes when it’s during the day he would give excuse of the flat too hot and go outside the balcony to eat so that he wont raise any suspicion.. ..
After 3days of ignoring her food he notice his Gf became more aggressive and acts angrily.in his mind he thought it maybe she was having her menstral cycle so he ingored all those signs and still joke and make her life ….but 2 weeks ago she left his house as usual to go back home…since she got home anytime he calls her she was like “what” “en ehn” so he was like surprise by the new attitude,he went to her ouse several times but always met her absence…Sometimes when he calls her she talks like her usual good Gf but sometimes like they are fighting…. Last Friday while he was at church for vigil,the pastor called him aside and told him that the lady has been using charm on him for the past year,which lead to him losing his job for some months before getting a new one.. .the pastor told him that the lady main aim was to make him poor so that she would be the one feeding him and controlling him,that He will always listen and do her bidding anytime she wants ….
My friend almost fainted and the pastor told him the reason why he instructed him to stop eating her food was because she always feed him the juju(charm,jass) thru food….
He said he didn’t believe what the pastor said so when he goy home he called her over 50times she didn’t pick her call all thru friday to sunday…all he could think of was if it was true… He spent all weekend asking himself the same questions like “Have I been under Juju all this while,Did she really love Him”
But on Monday he got the greatest shock if his Life…After work on Monday he got home and found his apartment empty…i mean totally partially empty ,only mattress and the bed stand,wall rode and some of his cloth remaining…all this watches,shoes,belt,all electrical gadgets were all gone..even all his pictures and personal stuffs…
He said he felt as if the world crumbled on Him,he went over to the ladies house and was told she hasn’t been home for 2days..when he called,she picked up and eased ,banged the call…
So he went to the landlord of his apartment and the oldest son of the landlord which was around 25 confirm that his Gf came with her friends to pack everything…The landlord said he couldn’t stop her becos she was pratically living with him for Past 2yrs so they tot they were married…My friend is still in Limbo Atm cos he still loves her alot inregardless of what had happen…The crazy thing is that yesterday somebody return some of his picture,the one he took with the lady was not returned….
Honestly if you meet this couple you would think they are heaven made cos they look so good together and were happy ….After hearing this last night,I got so scared,I never imagined a lady could do something like this to a guy that loves her…My advice to everyone out there is to be prayerful in ur relationship cos u don’t also know if you are under spell