Ever wondered why some born-again ladies who are really serving God aren’t married?They attend church activities regularly, always with Holy bible or spiritual book in their hand bags, always dressed properly, prayer warrior even to the point that all her neighbors hears her during night or early morning prayer yet the lady is in her late 30s or early 40s no husband, not even a fellow church or Christian brother to marry her?
Well from my observation; let me write some of the sure reasons why some of our holy sisters are finding difficulties to get married in their late 30s or early 40s when most of their perceived worldly, indecent, carnal-minded ladies are getting married in their mid 20s and late 20s.
– Born again ladies too scary and embarrassing for most men to approach: Yes they are insulting, I recall when a born again lady once slapped a man in the public because the man touched her politely. This set of ladies scared away potential husbands when they were young with their over serious attitudes. They have the set or standard of men they considered the kind of men they can grant audience and their principles and standard must be met by any man that should talk to them and believe me some of them have more than 50 principles and standard a man has to attain before they grant the man an audience.
Let me talk about some of their standards that makes them send men away;
– Firstly, He must be a God-fearing man (this God fearing man is what I don’t still understand what they mean) they need a man who is a strong Christian preferably their Church member.
– The man must tall, fair or dark, knows the scriptures very well, can pray for at least 30 minutes a day.
– The man must not drink alcohol, must not party, and must not do a kind of work that will make him return late at night.
– The man must be the type that helps her for some house works like cleaning, kitchen and laundry.
– If She finally considers the man, She will need months to pray to God about it in order for God to give her approval and if She get’s the approval from God, the man must also follow her to go and see her Pastor for final approval and if the Pastor says NO, then she pursues the man like a criminal.
– If the Pastor approves, sometimes men would not cope with their harsh principles beginning from the No touching till wedding day rule.
– Extreme born again ladies are always right and no one can correct them, they always feel like demigod to their men.
Meanwhile their perceived indecent ladies have been married with kids and peaceful family.