So you meet a guy, you hit it off, you become friends and pretty soon you realize you’re best friends. But there’s a catch, you’re falling for him and now you want to make your best friend fall in love with you too. Well good news, we’ve got you covered.
These tips will make your best friend fall in love with you
Engage Yourself
Start doing things for yourself and don’t make your existence about him. Learn something new, pursue your dreams, live a fulfilled life outside of him. Men love women who are their own person and doing new, exciting things will help you love yourself even more.
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Be there but not there
It’s time to stop being his every whim girl, The one he comes to for emotional rest. You can’t be there for him every time he needs you or he won’t bother with dating you. Once he sees you’re not always available he’ll make plans to change that.
Bring out your feminine side
The friendship was built on trust probably because you were easy to be around. Now that you have his trust, quit being one of the guys and start switching things up. So stop acting like his baby sister and definitely do not mummy him.
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Explore your options
This means go out on dates with other potential guys. Don’t do this with the intent to make him jealous, genuinely get to know if there’s someone better out there. Seeing you slipping away will help him decide if he really wants you and make a move. You might also find someone better.
If these steps don’t get him to see you as more than friends then it’s time to move on honey. Find someone who really loves you. For signs he might already be in love with you, check this out.
Source: Lifestyle.NG