The side chick issue is an age-long battle that most women still don’t know how to deal with. Loving your cheating boyfriend but not knowing how to get rid of his side chick can be frustrating. We advise you to leave him, but for those who just can’t leave the relationship because they’ve invested too much, we can help.
This is how to get rid of his side chick easily
Talk about it
Sometimes the easiest way to deal with a problem is to confront it. Now, I’m not saying Throw a tantrum or have a fight, no! Let him know you know and try and talk about why he is doing it and get to the root of the problem.
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Focus on your relationship
This doesn’t mean you should spend every waking moment trying to please him or show that you’re better. That’s probably why he started cheating in the first place. Focus means to concentrate on what’s working and try to fix what’s not working.
Get occupied
Focus on work, build new friendships and start opening yourself up to new people. This doesn’t mean you should cheat, it means you should look outside your relationship for fulfilment. Getting occupied with things that bring passion into your life will help you value yourself again and can make him realise what he will be missing out on.
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Don’t snoop
Snooping is never an option, it will only give you and him an unnecessary headache and put even more strain on the relationship.
Leave
If all the above don’t work, you have an option to leave and it’s something you should seriously consider. Do you really want to be with a guy who doesn’t want to be with you?
You’re a woman and you are special, so don’t settle for less than what you truly deserve. If a man is cheating and won’t stop, then leave him. Aside cheating, these are other signs your relationship is not healthy.
Source: Lifestyle.NG