As the relationship begins to get serious and marriage becomes certain, it’s important that the both of you do what you can to connect with each other’s loved ones.
How do you get along with in-laws? It’s not really complicated as long as they are also open to getting to know you.
Learn about their values
Talk to your partner about his family. Learn about the religion, morals, and values he was raised on. This way, you find out about the things you have in common with them and you have a better idea as to who they are.
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Check in from time to time
People like to be thought about. To get along with in-laws, show them they are on your mind by checking in on them. You may set aside some time to give them a call – perhaps once every week or two.
Let them get to know you
It’s easy to hate a stranger but it’s more difficult to be cruel to somebody after hearing their story. So try being open about who you are. Learn about them, but talk about yourself as well. Don’t be closed-off or too shy.
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Speak up
Nobody is perfect, and chances are, your in-laws will probably do something that offends you. Don’t keep it to yourself, especially considering the fact that it probably wasn’t done on purpose. Playing the victim leads to resentment and your animosity will keep bubbling under the surface. When there’s conflict, try to speak to your partner first to see if he can act as a mediator.
Before getting married, you need to have an idea who your partner’s family is, and that’s why it’s important to get along with in-laws. So, take the time to know them.
For more, learn how to make a good first impression with your fiance’s family.
Source: Lifestyle.NG