So your relationship status is due for an upgrade from girlfriend to fiancee/wife, however your man doesn’t seem to be drifting towards your line of thought. For you time is ticking and at this point you’ve basically waited long enough. Would you propose to your boyfriend?
Clearly this is a yes or no question and we’ve got some reasons why you should or shouldn’t propose to your man depending on your situation.
Why you should propose to your boyfriend
- The feminists in us are asking “Why the heck not?!” Love is not restricted to gender roles, if you’re compatible then why wait for him to ask. Its not like you’d say no anyways.
- Its quite cool to step out of tradition and exchange roles. It will definitely be a scene to remember for all witnesses.
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- It’s the right step to ordering your life properly. If marriage is a subject on your table and you have a momentum you want to follow then you should take actions into your own hands
- It will be the true depiction of taking a chance at love and moving the relationship forward. It’ll leave people saying “she knew what she wanted and she went for it.”
Why you should not propose to your boyfriend
- It can come across as desperate. Not everyone buys into the idea of switching roles and in this situation may make you look like a desperado.
- You might be rushing him and not realize it. In the long run it might just come back and bite you in the butt.
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We’d like to make it about you. So tell us, would you propose to your boyfriend if the opportunity presents itself? in the mean time, here’s how to secure that ring!
Source: Lifestyle.NG