So you’ve been going on a few dates here and there and finally met the right guys… yup not one but two. You cant seem to figure out who you like more because they satisfy you emotionally in very different ways. Now you’re double dating and risking losing both of them if they find out about one another.
Its surprising how we women find themselves in this position. You need to cut your cloth according to your size, luckily we’re here to help. Here’s what you need to do to sort out this double dating saga:
Choose One
Realistically there’s a high chance one is a crush and the other is true love. This depends on how long you’ve been with the said person or how invested you are with them. Try not to confuse your emotions, crushes come and go but true love lasts the test of time. We know it is hard, you’ve built an emotional connection with two people and no matter what someone will get hurt.
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So you have to choose if you’ll continue with your old relationship or if you need to start a new one with the new guy. We cant tell you who to pick but ensure that your decision is based on substance and not mere infatuation.
Walk Away
After making your choice, you need to walk away from the person whose heart you just broke. It would be easier for the both of you to move on and don’t speak for long while. The unlucky guy needs keep it moving and so do you, yes its a bit harsh but that’s what needs to be done.
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It gets hard enough when you’re with one guy, make it two and you’ve just doubled your complications. At the end of the decision is yours and we can only wish you good luck. We hope it all works out!
Ever been in this situation, how did you deal with it or what were the consequences? We’d love to hear from you!
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Source: Lifestyle.NG