When you’re in a relationship and your partner tells you that they need space or a break, it can be really confusing.
Do you need to leave them alone? Are you supposed to see other people? Is it for a short while? Well, it could mean a couple of things. You should not get too worried if your partner tells you that they need space or a break. It could mean that they just need some time alone because maybe they’re overwhelmed especially if this comes after an argument. At the same time, it could also be an indication that things are not so good in the relationship. Let’s break down some of the things “I need a break/space” could mean:
1. They don’t want to break up, but want some time apart.
Sometimes, there’s nothing wrong in a relationship but things get monotonous and boring. A break is necessary sometimes and gives both of you time to take a break, figure yourselves out, figure out what you really want, and if it’s achievable or not then come back stronger and try again.
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2. They want to break up.
It could mean that they’re just not feeling as if the relationship is headed anywhere. Sometimes, a break could mean that they are seeing someone else. It’s a simple excuse to break up. Cause, let’s be honest, breaking up with someone is really hard, especially if you’re the one who has to drop the bombshell and for some people, it’s easier to just say “Let’s take a break”. So yeah, a break could also mean it’s the end.
3. They are going through a tough time.
Work, school, family issues and everyday life can be overwhelming, so much so that you just need to be alone to deal with it. It’s not that you don’t love your partner, but you really just have to be on your own for some time and fix things or heal. Take for instance, after the loss of a loved one, some people prefer to be left alone and that’s understandable. So, if your partner is going through a rough patch, do offer your support as much as you can but if they ask for space, grant them their wish but let them know that you’re there should they need to talk it out.
4. They’re unsure about the relationship.
Maybe they want to take some time apart and see how they feel without you. Figure out if at all you add any value in the relationship. When you’re stuck in a non-progressive relationship, especially as a woman, you might feel like you want to be alone for a while to simply decide if that’s the man for you or not. In this case, when a lady takes such a break, if she feels that she’s totally fine without you, then the break almost always leads into a break up. But, if she feels that you’re a big part of her life and she needs you, she will try and come back and try to fix things.
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Source: Lifestyle.NG