So he did the hit and run thing and now you’re wondering what happened? Asking yourself why men lose interest after sex and what to do to stop it. Well, we can’t make him come back, but we can tell you why he lost interest and prevent it from happening to you again.
These are the reasons why men lose interest after sex:
He just wanted sex
Sometimes you have to face the hard truth, all he wanted was sex and you didn’t see it. Or you saw it and chose to ignore it. Whatever the case, you really don’t want anyone who just wants the sex anyway, so just let him go.
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He isn’t feeling the chemistry anymore
As silly as it sounds, this happens. Sometimes you’re so into each other and it builds a lot of tension. But when you finally have sex, you lose the chemistry. It usually means you were better off as friends.
You’re moving too fast
Guys are big babies and like all babies, they usually have no idea what they want until you take it away from them. Moving too fast after sex can scare a guy off especially if he isn’t sure he’s ready to commit yet.
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The sex was bad
This happens more often than we care to admit. Sometimes there’s a lot of fumbling around and body parts rising and falling and in the end, the experience is really crappy. It can get so bad that he really can’t bear getting in touch after the experience. This doesn’t mean it’s your fault of course, but sometimes sex is too bad to continue.
He’s scared
Sometimes it could just be that he’s scared you might not be as interested or his insecurities got the best of him. This is rare but it happens and you might have to help him overcome his fears.
Whatever the reason is, it’s important that you know it’s not about you and it’s his problem. So don’t sweat it, use these embarrassing sex stories to make yourself feel better.
Source: Lifestyle.NG