Do you know who a narcissist is? There are more of them around you than you think, and when you’re able to spot the signs, you’ll probably know one of two people in your life that fit the description.
Underneath it all, narcissists are very insecure, but instead of dealing with it in a healthy way, they develop a superiority complex. They are self-absorbed and conceited. Are you dating a narcissist? Here are the signs to watch out for:
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1. He can’t stop talking about himself
It’s hardly ever about you when you’re dating a narcissist. Even if you’re the one with the good news or you had a bad day, somehow the conversation becomes about him – his news, his day. When you do get a word in, if it’s not in agreement with him, he will either ignore, dismiss or correct you.
2. He revels in praise
You will have relationship issues if you don’t give a narcissistic partner your complete attention. He needs you to dote on him and always acknowledge his achievements. By the way, you will be hard-pressed to get the same from him.
3. He thinks he’s better than everyone
You see him demean others and he loves talking about the negative aspects of other people’s life. Even his close friends and family are not spared. He believes he can do a better job than anyone else.
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4. He overreacts
If his emotional needs aren’t met, a narcissist is very likely to overreact. In many cases, he can become extremely angry, cry or even be cruel.
5. He’s overly critical
Narcissists find it difficult to encourage, support or be happy for you. Instead, they will down. your accomplishments or even criticize them. You may hear him saying he could have done it better than you did.
6. They can be generous, but only to suit their need for attention
He may buy you things but become overly angry and even abusive if you don’t show the required level of appreciation and adoration for his gesture. Or he may give you gifts in front of others so they can see what a great job he’s doing as a boyfriend.
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7. They love breaking boundaries
Narcissists love to test the boundaries. They’re very likely to do the things you tell them are unacceptable. That’s why they are more likely to cheat and push your . in other ways.
Dating a narcissist can be exhausting. Your needs and opinions are hardly every considered and you always take the backseat. Do these signs remind you of anyone you know? While we’re on the topic, here are four types of men you should not date.
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Source: Lifestyle.NG