The man in question took to a popular forum to narrate his ordeal in the hands of his wife bordering on infidelity. The man claimed he caught his wife with her boss in a hotel in Ikeja, Lagos and he needs help on what to do. He met the lady while she was serving in 2012 and they started dating. He had to marry her as she got pregnant unexpectedly, unknown to him that he was getting married to a total stranger. Read his full story below and let’s have your advice on what he should do…
“Good evening Readers, I have no idea how to go about making this as clear as possible, but the truth is I married a stranger.
I met this Lady in 2012, we became friends and talked on consistently. At the time she was on NYSC in Ikom cross River State. By the way, she is from Obosi in Anambra state.
She was visiting me in Lagos every week, of course, I paid for her flight tickets back and forth for all the times she visited till we got married and beyond. I have never let her use the bus or public transport to anywhere, it’s either I drive her, she drives or a taxi.
A few months to her passing out, she told me she was pregnant, so I thought I would marry her and cut the drama short, but that was my undoing. We got married, but all through, she spent more time with her parents and siblings.
Fast forward to 2016, my wife got a job through my sister in Abuja, and everything got worse, she wouldn’t get back home till very late every day.
Her explanation was that her boss delayed her.
I got to find out she was dating her boss later, even caught her at hotels in Ikeja G. R,.A and on the island with her boss at very odd hours of the night.
Don’t get me wrong, I am okay, I live in a 5 bedroom duplex in Ikeja, the house is very comfortable and cozy, and almost completing my personal building at Awoyaya in Ibeju. I am not a poor man.
Well, she gave birth to my first child a boy but insisted on C. S, then my daughter, through C. S too. All were elective!
She wouldn’t come back home, and spent more time at her parents than in our home, always saying she needs her Mum to watch the kids, while she is out, we got maids, but she was so violent with them, they all left.
Fast forward to 2017, I asked my wife to come back home, she refused, well I told her the marriage wouldn’t work anymore, as she wasnt living with me for the past two years.
She immediately went and petitioned me at office of the Public defender in Lagos State citing domestic violence, irresponsibility as to my kids and stuff, I have always provided food, toiletries, medicals, as well as pay my children’s school fees till this minute.
But she teamed up with her Mum and brother to make up so many fabrications because they demanded I pay a stipend to them every month, and I said no, I won’t do that, your daughter, my wife is in your house cos she wants to be there, not because I sent her away or anything like that.
Her father is the only person who is sane, but the man is a pensioner and can’t help himself much, so she treats him with intimidation She reported me to the police and all agencies you can think of, well, at last, they conducted their investigations and found out she was telling lies.
I am no more interested in keeping her, and she has vowed that I can’t divorce her or I die, but my kids are the issue now.
I need sound advice on how to go about this.”