People choose who they are going to be with based on how they feel around that person. For men, it’s often quite simple. A beautiful woman makes them feel aroused, so they pursue sex with her.
If they feel cared for, respected and admired by her, they pursue a relationship with her.
But women experience sexuality differently than men do, so it can be a bit more complicated and hard for them to decipher what makes women feel attracted to men. But the principle remains the same. Women go with men who make them feel a certain way.
There are a number of ways to elicit emotion in a woman, and the way in which you go about eliciting that emotion will determine the quality and quantity of the relationships you have with women.
Be A Great Leader
Leadership can be defined as the ability to give guidance and direction verbally or by modeling. It’s not about control. Women want to feel like they are with a leader but not a dictator. In relationships, women can give us the level of trust that borders on livelihood.
Communicate Actively
Without getting too academic, communication is simply the exchange of ideas, needs, and desires. Make sure (to the extent possible) that what you are saying is valuable. You don’t need to be a philosopher but you do need to ensure that you’re choosing your words wisely because you talk less. Talking less gives you less time to explain if you say something wrong or offensive. Using fewer words doesn’t always allow you to be as detailed as possible. I’m not suggesting that you talk more. I am suggesting, however, that you speak with more intent.
Put Others First
This goes beyond not being selfish as in not wanting to share. Selfless also means that thinking of others before self. The selfless trait allows a man to be a giver especially when it counts.When displaying this characteristic, you’re showing that what she values is just as important that what you need. This same quality will be reciprocated by your woman. It’s innate in her.
Have Manners
What’s worse than being out with a person who doesn’t have good temperament? It’s a person who doesn’t have good manners. It doesn’t matter if you were raised in a majority male home or that you are in all male-dominated sports. A “please” and a “thank you” can a long way.
Be Family Oriented
All women don’t have the desire for marriage and a family, but the overwhelming majority do have this need. Being a guy that wants family or has children and is present with your kids increases your attractiveness exponentially.
Be Vulnerable
This is often difficult for guys to do. They need to see and experience that you are comfortable being open with them. Allowing her to encounter your vulnerability will increase trust. It shows that you trust her with the deep and dark places in your life.
Stay Informed & Educated
Keeping abreast on what’s happening around the globe and can talk about it is a quality that shows that you are a part of the world. You don’t have to be a political analyst or a philanthropist.
Have A Sense Of Humor
Not the type of humor that’s crass and insensitive, or even the kind that jokes about everything. But a great sense of humor that’s well timed.
Be Adventurous & Spontaneous
Women like a guy who isn’t afraid to try new things. Men have been categorized as creatures of habit who like a routine.
Know How To Fix Things
Don’t just think frugal or cheap. In fact, ladies hate cheap! Resourceful is a mixture of the ultimate networker. The key here is not that you necessarily know how to do everything but more that you know how to get things done. Or that you know someone who knows someone that can get it done.
This last one is jara, lol!
Be A Man Of Style
Men of style display a confidence that you don’t usually outwardly see. You don’t have to be the best-dressed man in the room. It is critical that you pay attention to you appearance and take pride in the fact that you will represent your wife or girlfriend even when she is not around.
Which of these points resonates with you?