“Men are not dumb, they know women who will tolerate their bad behavior” — Relationship guru tells understanding girlfriends
A relationship expert has warned women that guys are not stupid, but rather know the women who will accept their horrible behaviour and treat them brutally.
He posted the video on his Tiktok profile, @kingsleyeyitaproduction, where he normally gives dating and lifestyle advice.
According to him, a man who does not make an attempt to be with a woman continues that way because she tolerates it, implying that men are not as stupid as they appear.
In a hypothetical example, he noted that the same guy who doesn’t put in effort for one lady will put in the most effort for another because she doesn’t tolerate nonchalance and he would comply to her expectations.
The relationship expert chastised women for failing to set and maintain standards, claiming that this is why men treat them so casually.
Watch the video below;
@kingsleyeyitaproduction The goal of this video is to tell women that men are not as dumb as you might think, We know which women we can get away with bad treatment with and which women. We dare not treat badly. These women in general are women with very high standards and they enforce those standards when they need to. #dating #datingadvice #datingtips #datingpsychology ♬ original sound – Kingsley Eyita | Life Topics.
Check out some of the reactions below…
@Geraldine Timkay🥰 said: “my friend will watch this and still make excuses for him. How can I help her ?”
@Ekkua added: “I got this wisdom , and I started attracting responsible men…. Men are not complicated, don’t be over excited because a man showed interest you!!!”
@S4SS-QU33N wrote: “Then they label you as dramatic or argumentative because you know how to stand your ground”
@Kalizya Clara Tija M said: “I learnt this lesson abit late but better late than never,I never understood why I was treated like a door mat, I was the “understanding girlfriend”